Mother's
Day, Not Nearly Enough Time, Just One Day For
Mothers
by James Zeller
Many take both Mother, and Mother's Day for granted.
We all have, as children growing up. Mother's
Day is more than just a Sunday to send flowers
to Mom. Mother's Day is a memorial that serves
as just a fleeting moment of the year to show
honor and due reverence to one we love so dear.
It's only one day, and not nearly enough.
Being a full-time mother is one of the highest
salaried jobs in my field, since the payment is
pure love. -- Mildred B. Vermont
Eight of her twelve children had been baptized
in tears of grief. For Ana Maria Jarvis the Civil
War was far from civil. It didn't seem fair that
a mother should outlive so many children, yet
she did. In doing so, Ana left a legacy that was
adopted and championed by an unmarried daughter
who shared her mother's name.
In 1905, the younger Ana would baptize her mother's
grave in her own tears and begin a quest to bring
attention to the incredible gift of mothering.
Two years later, Ana Jarvis sought to have Mother's
Day recognized on a national level. The second
Sunday in May was the second anniversary of the
death of Ana's mother so this was a logical choice
for Jarvis. Ana lobbied politicians to accept
the notion of a day set aside to honor mothers.
By 1911 the day was celebrated in almost every
state in the union.
The tradition did not stop in America either.
This special holiday is now recognized in many
countries around the world.
More than a century has passed since the mother
of inspiration passed away, and yet it is her
legacy that is reflected in the admiration of
multiple generations for the tradition of motherhood.
The choice of a Mother's Day gift is a common
celebration of that tradition. Special care should
be exercised when seeking out a gift that proclaims
a willingness to attempt to pay a debt that can
never fully be repaid.
A gourmet gift such as an Oil and Vinegar Set
can pay homage to the grand tradition of Mother's
Day in a way that brings a stroke of brilliant
elegance and style to the occasion.
Gifts for the kitchen or that will ultimately
tempt the palate are perfect for Mother's Day
gift giving primarily because moms spend so much
time in the kitchen. Gifts that aid in meal preparations
or pamper the taste buds are a welcome departure
from more familiar gifts.
A kitchen gift may even indicate a willingness
to return for a well anticipated meal with mom.
Spending time with our mothers is important in
maintaining closeness throughout the years. A
Mother's Day kitchen gift speaks volumes in regards
to individual thoughtfulness, creativity and degree
of kindness.
It's possible to become so caught up in our own
worlds that we forget the moments in childhood
when our jelly-stained hands would reach for mom's
and we'd gaze into her eyes wondering why we couldn't
marry her or how much we wanted to be like her
when we grew up.
Should you be able to take the second Sunday
in May to personally express your appreciation
for your Mother, be sure to take along a special
gift that says you care. Then, consider investing
some of your time with your mom. Grab her hand
and look into her eyes and allow yourself to recapture
the wonder of childhood. You're in the midst of
greatness.
We owe a debt of gratitude to Ana Jarvis for
her persistent call for a day to honor the esteemed
calling of motherhood. I think Ana would agree
that, when it comes to motherhood, a lifetime
is not nearly enough time to say thanks.
About the Author
James Zeller writes for gourmet related websites
and blogs. Here is a selection of unique oil and
vinegar condiments that he found, and a creative
collection of culinary gourmet gifts.
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